High school relationships are awkward, but they don’t have to be! The most important part is asking the right way. Here is a list of the most effective and proven great ways to ask that special someone to be yours forever. (Results are not guaranteed. If your crush says no, just keep trying these ways.)
10) Triple date with you, that lucky guy or girl, and all the parents! This way everyone gets to meet in a neutral setting and the awkwardness is gone! This can get a little messy and confusing when it comes down to who is paying, but leave that part to the parents. Just back away slowly.
9) Have you ever had a crush on someone, but they are already in an existing relationship? Don’t let that intimidate you, just ask them in front of the significant other. It shows your bravery and determination to be with that person. The other person will not know what to say since they could not think of such an original plan. Remember that this person is in a relationship so he/she may not agree at first, but they will always remember this unique attempt.
8) Online blogs say if someone makes physical contact with you, it is almost a sure sign that he/she likes you. Take the initiative and trip them! This is a great method because it can find any situation. You two can be in public or private, and the trip can look accidental. If you like this person too much to potentially bruise them, just keep stepping on the back of their shoe. It has the same effect.
7) Imagine this. It is a romantic night out with you and that person. You just had an incredible dinner at a fancy place in the city. You don’t want this night to end because it was just so perfect. That being said, it was also very expensive. You dreadfully reach for your back pocket or purse when you realize you don’t have your wallet on you. It wasn’t in the car. It was probably on the shelf at home right where you left it and thought, “Oh I can’t forget this!” Your date won’t mind! He/she will be so flattered by the exquisite meal that they will not have a problem paying. The only downfall with this is it can not be used too often, especially on the same person. Also, don’t try to use it on someone that date knows. Word spreads fast, especially when a date is as excellent as the one you didn’t pay for.
6) Times have changed a lot in the past century. Marriages are no longer (in some places) limited to two people. If you are feeling modern but already have someone special in your life, just add another one! Polygamy, or the marriage of one person to multiple spouses, is the latest trend. Reality shows about this are on the rise, like Sister Wives and My Five Wives on TLC. Beware of this one, because this idea may be too radical for some people to accept at this time.
5) Some people enjoy the flirting and the sentimental parts of dating. Others are very direct. If you are the direct type, propose on the first date! If you really just want to get to the point, propose while you are driving to the date. That way you two can celebrate together, or you can comfort each other over the sudden break up. Everyone wins in this situation.
4) Marriage is supposed to be forever. So are tattoos. So, why not combine the two eternal symbols of commitment? Propose by getting “Will you marry me?” tattooed on an obvious spot, like your forearm or forehead. It shows you are very dedicated and want to show your love to everyone in the entire world!
3) If you really want to stand out, put the FALLING in falling in love! Fake your own death! This will really emphasize the “death do us part” section of the vows. This idea is a little extreme but gets the point across.
2) The most important part of a relationship is communication. Express your needs frequently – like that person – every five seconds. If you consistently ask this person out, he or she will be so impressed by your hard work that eventually the person will agree. It does not have to be extravagant everyday. Just a simple, “will you go out with me, yet?” will work. Of course, using manners is always a bonus. Adding “please” to the end of the prior phrase will definitely make a good impression. Remember, ask many times and use manners.
- There is nothing wrong with being shy. Many people are. What is wrong is not acting upon a crush when you know it could blossom into true romance. Using a friend to ask your crush casually if he/she likes you is a great idea! It shows you are curious about the others person’s feelings but you do not want to cry in front of the special person. If it is done right, it is actually not bad asking a mate to ask your crush casually if the feeling is mutual. However, most times this plan fails but hey, at least you can rest assured that your crush is scared away for good!